SUAMI@ISTERI YANG BERJAUHAN....

Aku post new topic nie buat kengkawan yg jauh dari suami@isteri masing2...cam aku!
mungkin ada doa, citer atau aper ajer untuk kita kongsi dan amalkan supaya kasih sayang kita sampai akhir hayat.......

cliey wrote:Aku post new topic nie buat kengkawan yg jauh dari suami@isteri masing2...cam aku!
mungkin ada doa, citer atau aper ajer untuk kita kongsi dan amalkan supaya kasih sayang kita sampai akhir hayat.......

ishkkkk aku tak termasuk la dlm kategori nih cik li ..... aku kalu takde hubby aku, mula la aku gelabah .... abis anak2 aku kena marah , tak pasal2 aje .....
aku 'tabik spring ' la kat korang ..... tabah mhadapi dugaan cam gituh ....

ko n mus je yg expert..kamal pun bole masuk la gak kategori ni walaupun sekali sekala je berjauhan...kan...tp ngikut pengalaman abg aku yg dulu setahun sekali blk jgk anak bini dia..mmg sian la kak ipar aku tuh..time pregnant sorg2...dah nak melahirkan baru abg aku balik..tp pastuh abg aku tukar syarikat lain..dpt la blk 3 bulan sekali..plg lama pun 6 bulan...tp kak ipar ni dok ngan mak dia..masa anak first..dpt second baby dok pantang ngan mak aku lak..sekrg dia dah dok umh sndiri..tp parents aku n parents dia mmg selalu menjenguk dia la..termasuk la kitorg yg selalu jenguk anak sedara..abg aku mmg selalu call kalo kat port..tp kalo dah tgh laut mmg la x dpt call..mmg kena bnyk sabor la...nasib anak dia kenal gak ayah diorg..mula2 susah sket la nak mesra..lama2 anak2 dia bole rapat ngan abg aku tuh..

aku pn kira satu kategori gak la kan.. suami ntah dimana mana gerangan nya..

cliey wrote:Aku post new topic nie buat kengkawan yg jauh dari suami@isteri masing2...cam aku!
mungkin ada doa, citer atau aper ajer untuk kita kongsi dan amalkan supaya kasih sayang kita sampai akhir hayat.......

cik lie...gue rindu bangat sama kamu:) oooo....dh kawin ye... ala setakat dok berjauhan tu perkara biasa la cik lie.. sy dulu pun setahun dok berjauhan...tp skrg tak lgi... emosi mmg tak berapa stabil masa tinggal berjauhan... ada je setan2 yg xde keje tu dtg menghasut...tp pastikan dlm hati sentiasa berdoa pada Allah moga hubungan sentiasa dalam keadaan baik...

cinta tu ibarat air embun sesuci pagi.buleh ilang tau...
mmg duk jauh byk cabaran sgt2. tapi apa yg kita alami jd 1 xprience bekal tua sok.
so, skrg, meh kita kumpul segala ilmu untuk erat kan kasih syg yg jauh or dah mmg dekat tue...
pada sesape, leh baca surah yusuf ayat 4..amalkan.duk dekat pon jgn sangka takde cobaan tau!

cliey wrote: cinta tu ibarat air embun sesuci pagi.buleh ilang tau...
mmg duk jauh byk cabaran sgt2. tapi apa yg kita alami jd 1 xprience bekal tua sok.
so, skrg, meh kita kumpul segala ilmu untuk erat kan kasih syg yg jauh or dah mmg dekat tue...
pada sesape, leh baca surah yusuf ayat 4..amalkan.duk dekat pon jgn sangka takde cobaan tau!

mcm x caya cik lie jd ustazah skrg ni....

anizawati ahmad mansor wrote:

cliey wrote: cinta tu ibarat air embun sesuci pagi.buleh ilang tau...
mmg duk jauh byk cabaran sgt2. tapi apa yg kita alami jd 1 xprience bekal tua sok.
so, skrg, meh kita kumpul segala ilmu untuk erat kan kasih syg yg jauh or dah mmg dekat tue...
pada sesape, leh baca surah yusuf ayat 4..amalkan.duk dekat pon jgn sangka takde cobaan tau!

mcm x caya cik lie jd ustazah skrg ni....

dah bukan takat ustazah dahj ni.. pakar rumahtanggan dah ni..

Hahhaha...takde nyer pakar pon. sekadar berkongsi rasa n pengalaman n jugak ilmu...
aku msh lagi ...hehhehe
cuma kena tau lah kan....takdir menentu segalanya!
huhuhu...sadis ayat aku kan?
ahaks!

Petua 8P Ust az ah Siti Nurbahyah



1) P yang pertama ialah 'puji' iaitu setiap pasangan perlu saling memuji antara satu sama lain dalam semua aspek kehidupan seperti masakan atau ucapan terima kasih apabila diberi pertolongan.

2) Katanya, P kedua ialah 'peluk' yang mana pasangan suami isteri hendaklah selalu peluk memeluk antara satu sama lain sekerap mungkin pada setiap hari kerana pelukan itu adalah belaian penuh kasih sayang.

3) P seterusnya ialah 'penghargaan' di mana amalan memberi hadiah boleh menambah kasih sayang.

4) 'Perhatian' adalah P keempat yang mesti diambil berat kerana kekurangan perhatian boleh mengakibatkan pasangan terasa diabaikan, katanya yang menulis buku Cakar Harimau - Tips Kebahagiaan Rumah Tangga, Amalan Ibu Mengandung dan Panduan Mencerdaskan Minda.

5) Siti Nur Bahyah berkata, P seterusnya mewakili 'persefahaman'

6) Menurutnya, P selanjutnya membawa maksud 'pergaulan' iaitu pasangan suami isteri mesti menjaga pergaulan masing-masing dengan orang lain bagi mengelakkannya daripada melampaui batas, menimbulkan cemburu seterusnya membawa kepada pembabitan orang ketiga.

7) Beliau berkata, satu lagi P adalah 'percutian' di mana kita perlu merancang percutian berdua-duaan dengan pasangan di tempat yang jauh daripada kesibukan dan kehidupan rutin.

Katanya, P yang terakhir ialah 'permohonan' iaitu doa kepada Allah supaya merapatkan kasih sayang antara pasangan suami isteri serta dijauhi daripada godaan kemewahan dan keseronokan dunia.

Siti Nur Bahyah juga menurunkan beberapa amalan doa selepas solat yang boleh merapatkan hubungan dan menimbulkan kasih sayang antara suami isteri iaitu membaca surah Al-Imran ayat ke-31 atau membacakan ayat ke-200 surah sama bagi mengurangkan panas baran suami.
Beliau berkata, kunci kebahagiaan rumah tangga yang sebenar ialah mendekatkan diri dengan Allah.
Katanya, apabila seseorang insan mengabaikan tanggung jawab terhadap agama, dia akan mengabaikan rumah tangga kerana jiwa yang kosong.

"Ketika kita jauh daripada Allah, iblis yang suka umat manusia bercerai-berai akan menghampiri dan melalaikan kita daripada tanggung jawab terhadap keluarga," katanya.

"sampaikanlah pesanan yang bermanfaat walaupun 1 ayat"

aku suke citer nie...

A woman came out of her house and saw 3 old men with long white beards sitting in her front yard. She did not recognize them. She said "I don't think I know you, but you must be hungry. Please come in and have something to eat."

"Is the man of the house home?", they asked.

"No", she replied. "He's out."

"Then we cannot come in", they replied.

In the evening when her husband came home, she told him what had happened.

"Go tell them I am home and invite them in!"

The woman went out and invited the men in"

"We do not go into a House together," they replied.

"Why is that?" she asked.

One of the old men explained: "His name is Wealth," he said pointing to one of his friends, and said pointing to another one, "He is Success, and I am Love." Then he added, "Now go in and discuss with your husband which one of us you want in your home."

The woman went in and told her husband what was said. Her husband was overjoyed. "How nice!!", he said. "Since that is the case, let us invite Wealth.. Let him come and fill our home with wealth!"

His wife disagreed. "My dear, why don't we invite Success?"

Their daughter-in-law was listening from the other corner of the house. She jumped in with her own suggestion: "Would it not be better to invite Love? Our home will then be filled with love!"

"Let us heed our daughter-in-law's advice," said the husband to his wife.

"Go out and invite Love to be our guest."

The woman went out and asked the 3 old men, "Which one of you is Love? Please come in and be our guest."

Love got up and started walking toward the house. The other 2 also got up and followed him. Surprised, the lady asked Wealth and Success: "I only invited Love, Why are you coming in?"

The old men replied together: "If you had invited Wealth or Success, the other two of us would've stayed out, but since you invited Love, wherever He goes, we go with him. Wherever there is Love, there is also Wealth and Success!!!!!!"

MY WISH FOR YOU...

-Where there is pain, I wish you peace and mercy.
-Where there is self-doubting, I wish you a renewed confidence in your ability to work through it.
-Where there is tiredness, or exhaustion, I wish you understanding, patience, and renewed strength.
-Where there is fear, I wish you love, and courage..

BALANCE SHEET OF LIFE

Our Birth is our Opening Balance !

Our Death is our Closing Balance!

Our Prejudiced Views are our Liabilities

Our Creative Ideas are our Assets

Heart is our Current Asset

Soul is our Fixed Asset

Brain is our Fixed Deposit

Thinking is our Current Account

Achievements are our Capital

Character & Morals, our Stock-in-Trade

Friends are our General Reserves

Values & Behaviour are our Goodwill

Patience is our Interest Earned

Love is our Dividend

Children are our Bonus Issues

Education is Brands / Patents

Knowledge is our Investment

Experience is our Premium Account

The Aim is to Tally the Balance Sheet Accurately.

The Goal is to get the Best Presented Accounts Award.


Some very Good and Very bad things ...

The most destructive habit......................Worry

The greatest Joy...............................Giving

The greatest loss................Loss of self-respect

The most satisfying work...............Helping others

The ugliest personality trait.............Selfishness

The most endangered species.........Dedicated leaders

Our greatest natural resource...............Our youth

The greatest "shot in the arm"..........Encouragement

The greatest problem to overcome.................Fear

The most effective sleeping pill........Peace of mind

The most crippling failure disease............Excuses

The most powerful force in life..................Love

The most dangerous pariah..................A gossiper

The world's most incredible computer........The brain

The worst thing to be without................... Hope

The deadliest weapon.......................The tongue

The two most power-filled words..............."I Can"

The greatest asset..............................Faith

The most worthless emotion..................Self-pity

The most beautiful attire......................SMILE!

The most prized possession................Integrity

The most powerful channel of communication.....Prayer

The most contagious spirit.................Enthusiasm

The most important thing in life..................GOD


Chinese Proverb:
"When someone shares something of value with you and you benefit from it, you have a moral obligation to share it with others"

huuhuuuuuu,,best best duduk jauh2 nih,sebab asben aku bagi aku elaun@nafkah ikut distance,,wakakakkaaaa....

Allah maha kuasa,maha pengasih lagi maha penyayang,,kita ni hamba Nya,selagi kita mengikut lunas2 agama,insyallah kita akan bahagia....no pain no gain,,,,